HR+, HER2- for those keeping score
In February, my regular post-cancer checkup began a cascade of new “chief complaints.” I am once again a cancer patient, and this time, chemo and radiation are both part of the treatment plan.
Last month I had a lumpectomy which is healing very nicely. It’s really been the easiest surgery I can ever remember having. Happily, the tumor was quite small this time, and all the margins and lymph are clear. However…
There are many appointments to come. Chemo itself will have at least two preliminary appointments (that I know of), then 4 treatments separated by 3 weeks, totaling a 3-month course. Radiation will commence two weeks after chemo is resolved. That will be 5 days a week for six weeks. After all that, they will readdress hormone interventions with Aromatase Inhibitors (maybe it will diminish my sense of smell? Jim is hopeful) and whatever else needs to happen in order to allow those drugs to be used. It’s complicated but a problem for 5 months from now.
“How can I help?”
I’m glad you asked.
I would like to have many inputs of joy. Please share with me moments of joy in your daily life (even just one time). I would like emails, texts, responses on this blog, cards via snail mail, you name it. Words or pictures, fun music links you’re enjoying. But let them be from you – not memes. Please remember I am unlikely to respond to some or most of these for what I hope are obvious reasons, but they will be appreciated. I will try to put out updates periodically on this blog, as I am able and have something to say.
As for more practical/tangible help, we will have to see how things develop. I have learned that different people react differently to these treatments, so whether I will need help with food or transportation or something else is unknown at this time.
“How can I pray?”
I’m glad you asked.
There are numerous side effects on tap for the remainder of my treatment plan, all of them unpleasant. Of most concern to me right now is neuropathy (nerve pain) in fingers. I am quite dependent on my hands to cope with stress and the world in general.
Fatigue/sleep. I am not sleeping well.
I am sad about my workout routine getting clobbered. It has helped a great deal with pain and stress. Surgery has already interrupted it and will interfere more.
This is a journey I did not want to repeat, let alone repeat with the added complications of chemo and radiation. But, I am here and so I will soldier on. Thanks for caring with me and for me.
Love you sweet friend! You are not alone in this journey.
Not crazy about your new career. But so glad between your med team and God and family and friends, you’re in good hands. Love you much.